When you are beyond tired (soul exhausted) and dont know how to get rest with Jess Connolly
Apr 4 • 32:19
When you are beyond tired (soul exhausted) and dont know how to get rest with Jess Connolly
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When you are beyond tired (soul exhausted) and dont know how to get rest with Jess Connolly

April 4, 2024 • 32:19 • Courtney DeFeo

I am taking a guess that 100% of us are exhausted. And this is beyond the physically tired feeling. You all will love the encouragement and wisdom on todays episode by Jess Connolly. I have always loved her teaching and preaching - because she balances compassion and truth so well. She doesnt leave us sitting in the challenges - she provides biblical, practical and realistic ways we can move forward in this issue.

This idea of burnout and an unsustainable pace is not new information. We know we are in it but are not sure why or how to stop it as parents? So what do we do? Tune in to this weeks podcast chat with Jess - you wont feel shame - you will feel equipped and encouraged to do the hard work of rest. We all know our souls are crying for it.

I was so absolutely amused at the start of our conversation when I asked her about her cold plunge obsession. Is anyone else into the idea of purposely jumping into ice cold water? She actually gives a pretty compelling case to try it.

  • Jess story of emotional, physical and spiritual breakdown
  • How to tend to your soul and stop feeling so defeated 
  • How to break the cycle of surviving vs thriving 
  • How can we respond to Gods invitation to rest

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JessConnolly.com

Tired of Being Tired - Jess new book

Raising Mentally Strong Kids

Christian Parenting store (15% off with coupon PODCAST2024)

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May 22 • 33:06
Are angels and demons real? Chatting with former atheist, Lee Strobel, about the supernatural realm.

This episode was phenomenal! I think its my favorite episode since I started with Pardon The Mess and Im praying this one goes far and wide. I have to shake my head that I get to talk to people that I admire so much. Lee Strobel is a renowned investigative journalist, former atheist, best selling author - who has spent his career diving into evidence that God is real.

In this conversation, we chat about the supernatural realm. We dive into demons, angels, deathbed visions and much more. I shared my fear about Satan and my skepticism that rises up in this area. I pray that this meets you in your doubts and questions and will give you some opportunities to chat with your atheist friends about God. I also pray this one ignites your faith in a new way.

My favorite part is at the end when we talk about parenting and the supernatural realm. How do we talk about our kids doubts and questions about faith? He shares about a nightly rhythm he had with his kids - to give them a regular and safe space to ponder their faith.

Enjoy!

Courtney 

(02:56) Exploring the Supernatural

(06:04) Experiences of Miracles and Healing

(09:05) The Role of Faith and Skepticism

(11:58) Dreams and Encounters with the Divine

(14:57) Understanding Demonic Influence

(17:11) Demonic Encounters and Exorcisms

(20:34) The Tension of Faith and Skepticism

(24:24) Navigating the Supernatural in Christianity

(28:41) Teaching Kids About the Supernatural

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Courtney DeFeo

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Resources from todays show:

Connect with Lee Strobel

The Case for Christ

Seeing The Supernatural 

Marriage Simplified

NIV Application Bible

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May 19 • 8:38
BONUS: Share: Go

Then I heard the Lord asking, Whom should I send as a messenger to this people? Who will go for us? 

I said, Here I am. Send me. (Isaiah 6:8 NLT)

We dont know what God will call our kids to do in their lives, but we do know that he wont call them to sit still. He will not call them to keep the good news to themselves. Whatever their profession looks like, wherever they live, whatever their interests are, or who their friends are, God will call our kids to tell people about Jesus!

 

We are Gods first plan for spreading the gospelhe relies on his kids to be faithful to their calling to go for him. When God says go, we dont say no, even when its hard or uncomfortable! Since God will call our kids to share their faith, lets raise them to respond confidently and go boldly into the situation they are called and say, This is who I was before I met Jesus and this is who I am now.

 

This week lets pray that when God calls our kids, they will go.

 

Jesus, I pray that ___________ will respond to your call to go and make disciples confidently and boldly. May they tell others about the amazing things you have done in their lives every day. May they be so in awe of your kindness that they cant help but share your good news. And when they do share about you, Lord, may they do so lovingly and gracefully. Amen.

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May 15 • 33:12
3 myths of homeschooling with Lyndsey Mimnagh

Can you imagine a world where your kids had room to be kids? Where they didnt hate learning? Where they learned the Bible, core subjects and still had time to play and create and travel? Homeschooling has come so far over the years. As the culture changes and gets further from Jesus and biblical teachings - I think its important to pause and just consider if this could be an option for your family. 

However, we all carry myths about homeschooling. Whether its the idea that they wont be socialized or that moms cant have a job outside of this or that we have to be good in all subjects - lets debunk those together. 

I am delighted to learn from Lyndsey Mimnagh with Treehouse Schoolhouse in this episode. She is so passionate about this style of education and helps break down the myths and the realities. 

My favorite part is when she shares about the benefits she is seeing in her children and their family culture. Dont let fear or insecurity talk you out of something God is nudging you to try! Take a listen and pray on the next steps for your children and their schooling. Just one step. Dont believe the lie that you have to make that decision when they are toddlers and never change course. 

Enjoy!

Courtney 

(03:000 The Joys of Camping and Family Adventures

(05:55) The Journey into Homeschooling

(08:52) Debunking Myths About Homeschooling

(11:56) Socialization in Homeschooling

(14:51) The Role of Parents in Homeschooling

(17:05) The Joy of Learning at Home

(21:30) Balancing Homeschooling and Personal Life

(22:48) Creating Resources for Homeschooling

(25:01) Rooted in Faith: A Curriculum for Families

(27:04) Encouragement for Hesitant Parents

(29:10) Navigating Independence in Parenting

(31:14) Practical Tips for Daily Life

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Courtney DeFeo

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Resources from todays show:

Connect with Lyndsey at Treehouse Schoolhouse 

(CODE: PARDONTHEMESS15 = 15% OFF anything in her store) 

Rooted - Family Bible Curriculum 

Treehouse Book Club

Marriage Simplified

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May 12 • 12:56
BONUS: Share: Be a Servant Leader

Sitting down, Jesus called the Twelve and said, Anyone who wants to be first must be the very last, and the servant of all (Mark 9:35)

We all want our kids to be leaders in their communities now and in the future. As followers of Jesus, we are called to see ourselves last instead of first. In fact, the Bible tells us that the first shall be last and the last shall be first. This means we lead not by positioning ourselves well, but by seeing the needs of others and meeting those needs with our giftings and resources. 

When we serve and love others in this way, we serve and love God. This week, lets pray that our kids become humble servant leaders in their communities to make a big impact on Gods kingdom. Lets pray that they are the first to help when they see others in need and that they reflect Christs gentleness, mercy, and willingness to sacrificially serve and share with others.

Jesus, help us to lead like you do. May ______________ set aside their desire for power and accolades and serve out of a heart for you and your kingdom. I pray that they continue to make a difference in their community because of the example of service that you give us. May their heart stay humble and focused on you. Amen.

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May 8 • 36:46
The mental load of motherhood and how to stay afloat with Emily Jensen

Have you ever heard the term mental load as it relates to what we carry as moms? It's the same as carrying every single thing up the stairs as your arms give way to the overload. Our minds do the same. We just snap because our minds arent meant to carry so much. So what do we do? How do we keep our care and responsibility high for our kids without drowning?

I was delighted to talk about this issue with Emily Jensen, founder of Risen Motherhood. Shes a mom of 5, author, speaker, podcaster and has so much encouragement and practical tips for us.

Mothers Day is this week and I want to challenge us. If you have some expectations or needs for what you need for that day - would you tell your spouse? Or family? Or children? This will help the day to be much smoother! 

My favorite part is when she shares about her recent decision to walk away from a big part of her ministry at Risen Motherhood. She put everything before the Lord and asked Him to confirm which things should go in this season. Wow! What a brave thing to do and I cant wait to see how He honors her with letting go of something so close to her heart.

Happy Mothers Day beautiful moms! You are so loved by God. You are doing a phenomenal job or raising your kids. Giving you a huge Texas hug!

Much love,

Courtney

(02:50) The Mission Behind 'A Million Tiny Moments'

(06:04) Understanding the Mental Load in Motherhood

(09:05) Strategies to Alleviate the Mental Load

(11:54) Long-Term vs. Short-Term Parenting Goals

(14:53) Finding Clarity Through Prayer and Decision-Making

(16:49) Navigating Life's Seasons

(21:27) Alleviating the Mental Load

(25:58) Empowering Kids with Responsibility

(28:15) Managing Expectations for Mother's Day

(32:31) Finding Peace in Motherhood

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Christian Parenting

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Courtney DeFeo

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Resources from todays show:

Connect with Emily

Risen Motherhood

A Million Tiny Moments - new book by Emily Jensen

Moms, Dads, and Grads Gift Guide

NIV Application Bible

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About the Host

Courtney DeFeo

Courtney DeFeo is the NEW host of Pardon the Mess! She is the author of In This House, We Will Giggle and Treasured and creator of ABC Scripture Cards and the kindness movement, Light ‘Em Up Acts. She loves to encourage parents and women through speaking, writing, and podcasting. She also serves on the board of For Girls Like You and Lighthouse Family Retreat. Her deepest desire is to encourage others and give generously in a way that draws people to God.

Her most honorable mention is her husband Ron and their two wildly fun girls (Ella, 16 and Larson, 14). Courtney is passionate about Jesus, coffee, Auburn football, Coca-Cola classic, her dog Mazie, spending time with friends and family, and finding deals at TJ Maxx. Although they have lived in Atlanta and Orlando, they currently reside in the DFW area. Courtney’s family loves to serve at Compass Church, travel together, and consume large amounts of table-side guacamole. Connect with Courtney on Instagram or visit CourtneyDeFeo.com.

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