Pardon the Mess

Welcome to Week 8 of our Summer of Stories series! This summer we have been featuring stories of incredible moms that have endured significant challenges. Through these stories, we pray you will remember that God is faithful and always with you through lifes most challenging moments. 

In this weeks story, you will hear from the extraordinary Cleere Cherry Reaves. Its very likely that you have one of her beautiful products and didnt even know it. Her massive heart for Jesus pours right into her beautiful company. I have enjoyed so many of her books, devotions and gifts for years. 

In the first part of our chat, we talked about her business and entrepreneurial spirit. So many of us moms have a creative stirring from God and we often arent sure what to do with that. How do we pursue a creative idea while raising kids? We often get overwhelmed and just put it aside. Im praying that theres a few moms listening that need to regain confidence and motivation to explore the creative ideas God put inside your heart.

The second part of our talk was my favorite! Cleere shares her story of going into labor prematurely and the miracle story that follows. Cleeres son, Sledge, has faced so many uphill battles and has suffered more than any mom wishes on their child. Maybe you have a child with a tough diagnosis? Or you know of another mom with a motherhood journey that went differently than expected? This episode is for us all. We can all learn from Cleeres undeniable faith and perseverance as she raises one strong and mighty boy.

Love, Courtney

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Small Talk

04:48

Creating Products that Serve a Purpose

09:36

The Challenges and Rewards of Entrepreneurship

13:03

Starting a Business with a Specific Person in Mind

16:11

Supporting and Celebrating Others in the Entrepreneurial Journey

28:12

From Challenges to Miracles: Trusting God's Plan

35:45

The Impact of Perspective on Others

37:37

Embracing Authenticity and Finding Joy

46:01

Trusting in the Character of God

49:59

The Power of Community and Support

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Courtney DeFeo

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Resources from todays show:

Cleerely Stated

Promises from the Psalms - card set I bought Ella

Unfiltered - Cleeres new devotional

StrongHeart

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Welcome to Week 7 of our Summer of Stories series! This Summer we have been featuring stories of incredible moms that have endured significant challenges. Through these stories, we pray you will remember that God is faithful and always with you through lifes most challenging moments. 

In this weeks story, you will hear from the delightful, creative and intentional Erin Burchik. She is a family friend and I have long-admired her approach to parenting. She desperately wants to enjoy each of her kids and embrace the good ole days of kids in the home. She will share how traveling and taking trips became a passion of hers. And she will share some super practical ways to make trips doable and affordable when youre on a budget.

Before we get to the scoop on traveling for less, she shares her story about becoming a mom. Through many trials and some devastating financial loss, Erin has fought through doubt and frustration with God. She felt called to adopt and then it didnt go as smoothly as she had hoped. Its so fun to see her on the other side of this battle and see the family that God designed from the very beginning. 

My favorite part is when she explains the WHY behind their family adventures. Shes not traveling to flex on Instagram or show off or waste money. Shes traveling because she wants to create memories with her kids, to carve out time to adventure together and to get out of their comfort zone. I love her approach!

In this episode, we discuss:

• Erins journey to motherhood - foster care and adoption
• How to find community with other adopted families
• How to exchange gifts for experiences at Christmas
• How to find creative ways to do big trips on a little budget

Enjoy!!

Courtney

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Background

04:02

The Journey of Adoption

08:57

Building a Supportive Community

18:13

Creating Lasting Memories

20:05

Santa Bringing Christmas Trips

22:10

Maximizing Credit Card Points

25:29

Saving Thousands on Family Trips

28:21

Benefits of Traveling with Kids

30:15

Building Independence and Confidence

33:31

Enjoying Motherhood and Savoring the Moments

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Courtney DeFeo

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Resources from todays show:

StrongHeart

Erins Instagram

Erins travel site - Points For Families

Erins book - Animals of the Nativity

Erins book - The Bear Hug

TBRI for families that have adopted

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When I engage with young moms, I often get asked a lot about alcohol. These women are wanting me to give them an official answer about how a Christian woman should handle alcohol. And I often dont have the specific answer they want - because it is so often in the gray area. And only the person asking the question knows whats going on under the issue.

Todays story is about a mom that got curious about her relationship with alcohol in her early 30s. As you hear her story, you will be inspired to take an honest assessment and just get curious about your relationship with alcohol. She called it getting sober minded. 

Although I dont drink - I have my own vices which we discuss. I joke about my love of the phone, cookie dough and TJMaxx. If Im honest, I often use those to outsource my comfort. This isnt an episode for moms that drink - this is an episode for all of us. 

My favorite part is when Jenn shares about the benefits of operating in a sober mind. She reminds us that being present with our kids is worth the fight. Lets lean into Jenns story together and be brave enough to hear what God is nudging us to do in response. 

Dont forget to check in our Jenns community called Sober Sis and utilize all of the fantastic resources that are helping thousands of women become sober-minded and enjoy this life to the fullest!

In this episode we chat about: 

• Jenns journey with alcohol and finding a sober-minded life
• How to pay attention to what God is saying to us directly
• How to get curious about areas of addiction in our lives
• How to fight for presence with our families 

00:00

Introduction and Connection

02:33

Early Years and Introduction to Social Drinking

05:46

The Influence of Mommy Wine Culture

07:41

Outsourcing Comfort and Dealing with Anxiety

09:44

Questioning the Relationship with Drinking

12:30

Understanding the Mindset and Motivations Behind Drinking

19:28

Questioning Your Relationship with Drinking

21:57

Introduction: Jenn's Journey of Sobriety

25:08

The Importance of Addressing the Root Cause

28:40

Taking the First Step: Sobriety Curiosity

33:28

Shifting Mindset: Gaining, Not Giving Up

39:11

The Power of Community in Sobriety

42:59

Personal Growth and Sobriety

45:07

Conclusion: Encouragement for Moms

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Courtney DeFeo

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Resources from todays show:

•  Sober Sis Home Page - 
• Happy Hour Survival Guide - Free Guide
• 21 Day Reset Challenge 
• Sober Sis - Facebook 
• Sober Sis - Instagram
• Sober Sis 2024 Retreat 
• Look Alive, Sis! by Jenn Kautsch (book) - Little Habits, Big Faith

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Happy July 4th!

This weeks story features my friend, Stacey Morgan, who is an astronauts wife! Her life is truly fascinating. Her family is currently living in the Marshall Islands which is 5 hours south of Hawaii. 

Stacey honestly shares the truth about loneliness. She has had to start over multiple times as a military spouse. I love her hard truth about loneliness: we have to make the first move. She also shares how her kids are thriving as they were uprooted from the cultural norm in Texas, and now live on an island with 1,200 people total. They are learning valuable life lessons about whats most important.

My favorite part is at the very end when she talks about her top learning as a mom of over 20 years. Her encouragement to let go was really timely for me. I am having trouble letting go of my oldest who is a rising senior. I need that reminder over and over again. 

In this episode, we chat about:

• How to navigate marriage when you are both strong leaders
• How to start over when you move into a new city (or island! :)
• Why community matters in motherhood
• How to make friends as an adult woman 
• What to do when youre deeply lonely

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Background

02:47

Moving to the Marshall Islands

05:58

Supporting a Spouse's Career

11:04

Living in a Small Community

15:01

Transition and Loneliness

23:57

Supporting Military Spouses and Moms

26:30

The Importance of Community for Military Families

31:16

MomCo: Supporting Military Moms

39:19

Lessons in Trust and Letting Go

44:28

The Power of Grace and Understanding in Parenting

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Courtney DeFeo

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Resources from todays show:

Stacey Morgans site 

Staceys Instagram

Staceys Book: The Astronauts Wife

MomCo - Military Meetups

How to start an online MomCo group

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If she wasnt one of my best friends, I dont know if I would believe this story. However, it is true and real and incredibly powerful. My friend, Kylie White, was fully healed from near blindness. Her story and her miracle has exploded my faith the last several years. It has given me courage to pray bigger prayers. 

I will never be over what God did for Kylie. Even though Ive heard this story many times, I heard even more details during this conversation which exploded my faith yet again. God is so good. Im truly excited for us all to have this reminder today through Kylies story.

My favorite part is hearing how she got to the miracle day. Listen closely as she shares the years leading up to her miracle. Lean into what God was pressing on her heart. And lets lean into what God wants to say to you through her story. What is He asking you to release and surrender? What miracle do you believe is too far gone? 

In this episode, we chat about:

• Kylies miracle story and healing 
• How we can trust God and lean in when we dont understand the full story
• How to parent the pain endured with adoption
• How to love our kids unconditionally 

Dont forget to share the Summer of Stories with your friends - so that they can also be reminded that: God is good. You are not alone. And He is with you during lifes hardest moments.

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Catching Up

03:35

Adoption and Navigating Challenges

06:45

Parenting and Unconditional Love

09:40

Experiencing a Modern-Day Miracle

28:13

Asking for Healing

30:14

Miraculous Healing

35:23

Confirmation of Healing

39:26

Orphan Prevention and Untold

42:19

Lessons Learned as a Parent

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Courtney DeFeo

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Resources from todays show:

Kylies Instagram

Kylies blog

Untold - Nonprofit Kylie supports

Fathers House - Bible study by Rachel