Protect young minds from pornography with Kristen Jenson
Jun 11 • 39:40
Protect young minds from pornography with Kristen Jenson
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Protect young minds from pornography with Kristen Jenson

June 11, 2020 • 39:40 • Courtney DeFeo

When it comes to technology, were raising our kids in a completely different world than the one we grew up in. The advancement of technology has provided some great benefits for our kids, most recently seen with online schooling successes during COVID-19. But technology has also given rise to some really sad statistics showing a steep increase in pornography use during quarantine.

 

Kristen Jenson, founder of Protect Young Minds, joins us today to discuss the impact of pornographic material on our kids. She highlights the importance of equipping them to deal with exposure to pornography from an early age. She believes the best filter we can provide is an internal filter, setting up a plan for dealing with pornography when our kids are inevitably exposed to it.

 

Kristen offers a great working definition of the topic and some easy ways to get past the awkwardness we may feel in discussing it with our kids. The reality is that really great kids are forced to deal with this issue in their lives, and as parents, we have the opportunity to set the stage for their success.

 

Dont miss this encouraging and necessary conversation on a hard topic we will all face in parenting.

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As parents, we know raising kids is the opposite of neat and tidy. Each day brings wins, losses and valuable lessons. Pardon the Mess is a place where we discuss parenting and faith in a biblical, approachable and relatable way. We may cry and laugh while we learn and grow together in our beautiful mess. Follow Pardon the Mess on Instagram and Facebook!
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May 26 • 13:22
BONUS: Share: A lasting Faith

We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith. Because of the joy awaiting him, he endured the cross, disregarding its shame. Now he is seated in the place of honor beside Gods throne (Hebrews 12:2 NLT)

We have spent the last few months together praying for our kids to live a life of faith. We have prayed that they would know, love, follow, and share the good news of Jesus. Might I encourage you to continue in these prayers? Our job as a praying parent does not end just because this journal ends.

Prayer is the very best gift you can give your kids and the only one that will last forever. Keep doing the hard and holy work of raising your kids in the faith, your work is not in vain and it does not go unnoticed. Continue to pray for your kids to have a lasting faith in Jesus and that they will keep their eyes on him, working to expand his kingdom until the end of their journey when they hear the Lord say, Well done my good and faithful servant. 

Remember, a life of faith is not linear. Your faith story has ups and downs and your kids faith stories will have ups and downs, too. So no matter where your kids currently are or will be in their faith journey, do not lose hope. Remember that God is sovereign over all thingsincluding the lives of your kids. He loves your kids even more than you do and he knows how their stories will go.

Together, lets make it our mission to pray for the next generation to live full lives of lasting faith and make a big impact in the world for Gods kingdom as they share with others what he has done in their lives 

Father God, thank you for the opportunity to raise the child/children you have given me. Thank you for the gift of communicating with you through prayer. I lift up ________ to you and pray that they will live a full life of faith. Lord, in all the ups and downs of their life, may they continue to keep their eyes on you. May they know how much you love them and may they love you back wholeheartedly. Wrap your arms tightly around them all the days of their life. You know ________s story and I trust you with it. Amen.

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May 22 • 33:06
Are angels and demons real? Chatting with former atheist, Lee Strobel, about the supernatural realm.

This episode was phenomenal! I think its my favorite episode since I started with Pardon The Mess and Im praying this one goes far and wide. I have to shake my head that I get to talk to people that I admire so much. Lee Strobel is a renowned investigative journalist, former atheist, best selling author - who has spent his career diving into evidence that God is real.

In this conversation, we chat about the supernatural realm. We dive into demons, angels, deathbed visions and much more. I shared my fear about Satan and my skepticism that rises up in this area. I pray that this meets you in your doubts and questions and will give you some opportunities to chat with your atheist friends about God. I also pray this one ignites your faith in a new way.

My favorite part is at the end when we talk about parenting and the supernatural realm. How do we talk about our kids doubts and questions about faith? He shares about a nightly rhythm he had with his kids - to give them a regular and safe space to ponder their faith.

Enjoy!

Courtney 

(02:56) Exploring the Supernatural

(06:04) Experiences of Miracles and Healing

(09:05) The Role of Faith and Skepticism

(11:58) Dreams and Encounters with the Divine

(14:57) Understanding Demonic Influence

(17:11) Demonic Encounters and Exorcisms

(20:34) The Tension of Faith and Skepticism

(24:24) Navigating the Supernatural in Christianity

(28:41) Teaching Kids About the Supernatural

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Courtney DeFeo

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The Case for Christ

Seeing The Supernatural 

Marriage Simplified

NIV Application Bible

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May 19 • 8:38
BONUS: Share: Go

Then I heard the Lord asking, Whom should I send as a messenger to this people? Who will go for us? 

I said, Here I am. Send me. (Isaiah 6:8 NLT)

We dont know what God will call our kids to do in their lives, but we do know that he wont call them to sit still. He will not call them to keep the good news to themselves. Whatever their profession looks like, wherever they live, whatever their interests are, or who their friends are, God will call our kids to tell people about Jesus!

 

We are Gods first plan for spreading the gospelhe relies on his kids to be faithful to their calling to go for him. When God says go, we dont say no, even when its hard or uncomfortable! Since God will call our kids to share their faith, lets raise them to respond confidently and go boldly into the situation they are called and say, This is who I was before I met Jesus and this is who I am now.

 

This week lets pray that when God calls our kids, they will go.

 

Jesus, I pray that ___________ will respond to your call to go and make disciples confidently and boldly. May they tell others about the amazing things you have done in their lives every day. May they be so in awe of your kindness that they cant help but share your good news. And when they do share about you, Lord, may they do so lovingly and gracefully. Amen.

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May 15 • 33:12
3 myths of homeschooling with Lyndsey Mimnagh

Can you imagine a world where your kids had room to be kids? Where they didnt hate learning? Where they learned the Bible, core subjects and still had time to play and create and travel? Homeschooling has come so far over the years. As the culture changes and gets further from Jesus and biblical teachings - I think its important to pause and just consider if this could be an option for your family. 

However, we all carry myths about homeschooling. Whether its the idea that they wont be socialized or that moms cant have a job outside of this or that we have to be good in all subjects - lets debunk those together. 

I am delighted to learn from Lyndsey Mimnagh with Treehouse Schoolhouse in this episode. She is so passionate about this style of education and helps break down the myths and the realities. 

My favorite part is when she shares about the benefits she is seeing in her children and their family culture. Dont let fear or insecurity talk you out of something God is nudging you to try! Take a listen and pray on the next steps for your children and their schooling. Just one step. Dont believe the lie that you have to make that decision when they are toddlers and never change course. 

Enjoy!

Courtney 

(03:000 The Joys of Camping and Family Adventures

(05:55) The Journey into Homeschooling

(08:52) Debunking Myths About Homeschooling

(11:56) Socialization in Homeschooling

(14:51) The Role of Parents in Homeschooling

(17:05) The Joy of Learning at Home

(21:30) Balancing Homeschooling and Personal Life

(22:48) Creating Resources for Homeschooling

(25:01) Rooted in Faith: A Curriculum for Families

(27:04) Encouragement for Hesitant Parents

(29:10) Navigating Independence in Parenting

(31:14) Practical Tips for Daily Life

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Connect with Lyndsey at Treehouse Schoolhouse 

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Rooted - Family Bible Curriculum 

Treehouse Book Club

Marriage Simplified

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May 12 • 12:56
BONUS: Share: Be a Servant Leader

Sitting down, Jesus called the Twelve and said, Anyone who wants to be first must be the very last, and the servant of all (Mark 9:35)

We all want our kids to be leaders in their communities now and in the future. As followers of Jesus, we are called to see ourselves last instead of first. In fact, the Bible tells us that the first shall be last and the last shall be first. This means we lead not by positioning ourselves well, but by seeing the needs of others and meeting those needs with our giftings and resources. 

When we serve and love others in this way, we serve and love God. This week, lets pray that our kids become humble servant leaders in their communities to make a big impact on Gods kingdom. Lets pray that they are the first to help when they see others in need and that they reflect Christs gentleness, mercy, and willingness to sacrificially serve and share with others.

Jesus, help us to lead like you do. May ______________ set aside their desire for power and accolades and serve out of a heart for you and your kingdom. I pray that they continue to make a difference in their community because of the example of service that you give us. May their heart stay humble and focused on you. Amen.

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About the Host

Courtney DeFeo

Courtney DeFeo is the NEW host of Pardon the Mess! She is the author of In This House, We Will Giggle and Treasured and creator of ABC Scripture Cards and the kindness movement, Light ‘Em Up Acts. She loves to encourage parents and women through speaking, writing, and podcasting. She also serves on the board of For Girls Like You and Lighthouse Family Retreat. Her deepest desire is to encourage others and give generously in a way that draws people to God.

Her most honorable mention is her husband Ron and their two wildly fun girls (Ella, 16 and Larson, 14). Courtney is passionate about Jesus, coffee, Auburn football, Coca-Cola classic, her dog Mazie, spending time with friends and family, and finding deals at TJ Maxx. Although they have lived in Atlanta and Orlando, they currently reside in the DFW area. Courtney’s family loves to serve at Compass Church, travel together, and consume large amounts of table-side guacamole. Connect with Courtney on Instagram or visit CourtneyDeFeo.com.

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