Pardon the Mess

January 18, 2024

For all parents of sons! Is there a boy crisis? with David Thomas

David Thomas never disappoints! As a counselor with decades of experience, David has counseled thousands of families of boys. He brings powerful insight, practical tips, and heartfelt encouragement. 

You may be wondering if you are failing at this parenting thing or if there might be something wrong with your son. After this episode, I think you will feel much better about your parenting and your amazing son. 

David agrees with the assessment that there is a “boy crisis” happening, as this article suggests. Reach out to us on social media – do you agree? Are you seeing “disinterest” in your son’s world too?

My biggest takeaway is when David distinguishes between “hard” and “harmful.” I have daughters – but I needed to hear this encouragement. Too often, I help them escape hard things because I believe they are in harm’s way when they are not. Many times, my kids are pushing back against discomfort and you’ll hear how this is needed and actually good for them.

This is one of those episodes you need to listen to, file away, save, listen again, and then discuss with a friend. Do not lose hope! Jesus has you and your kiddos. I’m so thankful he brings us so many wonderful and biblical mentors like David Thomas to help guide us through these parenting challenges. Don’t miss the last part when David reminds us that we have an opportunity and many years left to equip, empower and encourage all the kids we love.

Connect with Pardon The Mess:

• Christian Parenting
• Pardon The Mess 
• Courtney DeFeo

Resources from today’s show:

• Dr. Anthony Bradley article about boy crisis 
• Daystar Counseling 
• Raising Boys and Girls Instagram
• Raising Boys and Girls Podcast 
• Raising Emotionally Strong Boys (for parents)
• Strong and Smart (guide for boys)
• Babbleland Breakout– Dead Sea Squirrels

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