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Sep 17 • 47:13
Honest Talk with John Fort
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Honest Talk with John Fort

September 17, 2024 • 47:13 • Greta Eskridge

This episode is a really special one. I am delighted to introduce you to todays guest, John Fort. John is the director of Be Broken Ministries, which exists to help individuals and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ.  

John is also the author of several books, including Honest Talka New Perspective on Talking to Your Kids About Sex, which we talk about today. 

John vulnerably and courageously shares his story of sexual and pornography addiction and how God has redeemed his story to give him a purpose driven by hope and healing.  

I loved talking with John!  

He is full of wisdom, reassurance and, theres that word again, hope. He encourages parents to be honest with their kids about their own sexual past and then shows us how to do it. I read his book cover to cover in a few days and I cant encourage you enough to get your own copy. But start by listening to this episode and getting to know John better. Youll be so glad you did! 

 

Find John here: 

Be Broken Ministries 

Find Johns books here: 

Honest Talka new perspective on talking to your kids about sex 

Father-Son Accountability : Integrity Through Relationship 

 

Some favorite quotes from todays episode: 

*I was a little afraid to get into this work but God kept shutting all the other doors. It was like He said, I didnt bring you out of this for nothing. John Fort 

*There is so much freedom in honesty. Greta Eskridge  

*Look at what God did! He did it for me and He can do it for you. Greta Eskridge 

*If parents would be brave enough to tell their own story then their kids would be able to say, oh you do understand! and then they could talk. John Fort 

*He realized at that moment that he was not too broken to be loved by his parents or by God. For the first time he felt a surge of hope that he had someone to talk to about sex and maybe his father could help him. That event , just hearing his fathers sexual story became the turning point for this young man to actively engage in his own journey to sexual wholeness. John Fort 

*My problem had nothing to do with sex. I was using pornography and other sexual things to deal with emotions I didnt know what to do with. John Fort 

*The days I looked at pornography as a teenager were the days something bad happened and I didnt know what to do with that. John Fort 

*If in our house we never talk about body parts, we never talk about anything, that gives the silent message that its not OK to talk about these things. John Fort 

*We surveyed a bunch of teenagers and asked why dont you talk to your parents about sex. They had two answers: Im afraid my parents wont understand my past or Ill get in trouble for what I say or even what I ask. John Fort 

*Your story is simply a way to show them it is OK to talk about these things. John Fort 

*We can pretend its not happening or we can just talk about it. Greta Eskridge  

*You dont even know what your kids are dealing with until you ask. And the older they get the more often we have to ask them what theyre seeing and what theyre hearing. John Fort 

*People are looking for help for their addictions and hope for their broken hearts. They want living water. If we run away or become judgmental or uncomfortable any time we see sexual pain, we will miss the greatest opportunities to enter the pain of their sexual brokenness and share the love of Jesus Christ. Julie Slattery 

*Emotional resilience is connected to sexual wholeness. Greta Eskridge  

*We think that telling our story is going to make our kids not respect us, but the opposite is true if we do it well. John Fort 

 

Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my show! Id be so grateful if youd leave a rating and review of the podcast if you havent already. I appreciate each one of you. 

Keep chasing joy! 

Greta 

The Greta Eskridge Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

 

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Resources mentioned in this episode: 

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Find Greta: 

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About the Host

Greta Eskridge

Greta Eskridge is a second-generation homeschooler, an author, a speaker, and a podcast host. Greta’s faith in God is the lens through which she sees the world.

Greta loves encouraging parents to pursue joyful, connected parenting. And she is passionate about helping families create connection in a disconnected world through things like purposeful adventures, online safety, and keeping their eyes wide open to wonder. Greta firmly believes that “joy is the serious business of heaven” and is on mission to chase joy through both the peaks and valleys of parenting and life.

Greta lives in sunny southern California with her artist husband, Aaron, and their four kids--1 young adult and 3 teens. Greta loves nature, books and coffee and her favorite place to be is on a hiking trail. 

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