Building emotionally resilient kids with Sissy Goff and David Thomas
May 6 • 31:03
Building emotionally resilient kids with Sissy Goff and David Thomas
Episode:

Building emotionally resilient kids with Sissy Goff and David Thomas

May 6, 2025 • 31:03 • Steph Thurling

Im so excited about this weeks episode because Im joined by two of my favorite guests Sissy Goff and David Thomas from the Raising Boys and Girls podcast! Theyre sharing incredible insights from their counseling practice and offering encouragement for every parent navigating the emotional ups and downs of raising kids today.

Here are four key takeaways from this episode:

  • Anxiety and emotional overwhelm are on the rise, but there are simple, effective ways to help our kids cope.
  • Sissy and David share how their therapy dogs are making a big difference in helping kids feel safe and supported.
  • Small, consistent stepslike routines and regulation toolscan strengthen your childs emotional health.
  • They tell us about their upcoming Raising Capable Kids Conference and share a special listener discount! (Use RAISING25 for 25% off tickets!)

Sissy and David are therapists, speakers, authors, and co-hosts of the Raising Boys and Girls podcast. With decades of combined experience at Daystar Counseling Ministries, theyre known for their practical, grace-filled approach to helping parents raise emotionally healthy, faith-rooted kids.

This conversation is packed with wisdom and encouragement for every parent whos ever felt overwhelmed or unsure. I hope it gives you the tools and confidence you need to support your child with love and clarity.

(03:04) The Importance of Encouragement for Parents

(06:06) Challenges Facing Kids Today

(09:07) Understanding Anxiety in Children

(12:01) The Role of Dogs in Therapy

(15:03) Tools for Emotional Regulation

(18:07) Practical Strategies for Parents

(20:59) Upcoming Conference and Resources

Connect with David Thomas and Sissy Goff

Connect with Sissy and David

Daystar Counseling 

Daystar dogs - new books Owen Learns He Has What It Takes and Lucy Learns to Be Brave

Resources Mentioned

Raising Capable Kids Conference  Use code: RAISING25 for 25% off ticket prices!

NIV Application Bible

Moms, Dads, and Grads Gift Guide

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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The Christian Parenting Podcast

With Steph Thurling
As believing parents, we know how important it is to raise our kids with love and intentionality. We want to give our kids a full picture of God's love for them every day! But some days, it's really hard! We are stretched thin, tired, and often feel unequipped. The Christian Parenting Podcast gives parents the space and resources to set aside perfection and grow into the perfectly imperfect parents God made them to be. Join host Steph Thurling and her guests as they discuss practical tips and spiritual guidance for your parenting journey.
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Dec 18 • 44:28
Q&A with Ella DeFeo and Landry Smith

What a thrill to interview my oldest daughter and one of her very best friends. Ella and Landry have been friends since 3rd grade and its so special to hear from two young women that are keeping their faith a priority in college. I ask them about their favorites from tennis shoes to rom-coms and then we get into some more serious topics.

My favorite moment is when I ask each of them, What is God teaching you right now? I was blown away by their answers and also felt so thankful that they are both engaged in their college church communities. Ask your kiddos that question this Christmas break and let them share about their faith. I am always astounded when I learn how much depth and wisdom is in these teens. They are wiser than you know.

You also dont want to miss my opening story about an elf on the shelf adventure gone wrong. I am still feeling a little rattled from it. 

Enjoy!

Courtney 

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introductions

07:05 High School Experiences and Advice

10:02 Navigating Junior Year Challenges

14:54 Senior Year Reflections and Relationships

18:26 Maintaining Faith in High School

23:35 Parental Guidance and Support

25:37 Navigating High School Dynamics

26:56 Understanding Teen Communication

28:04 The High School Experience: Challenges and Growth

30:51 Transitioning to College Life

33:35 Building Friendships in College

37:48 Spiritual Growth and Lessons Learned

43:18 Legacy of Love: Lessons from Grandmothers

Connect with Pardon The Mess:

Christian Parenting

Pardon The Mess 

Courtney DeFeo

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Resources from todays show:

Ellas new sneakers - Back 70

Yahtzee Game

Nertz Game

Quiplash (on Apple TV)

New Morning Mercies devotional

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Dec 16 • 33:59
Unwrapping the truth about Christmas with Lee Strobel

Lets talk about Christmas. Not just the cozy traditions or the sparkling lights, but the actual story of what happened in Bethlehem over 2,000 years ago.

This week on the podcast, I had the absolute honor of sitting down with Lee Strobel and together we explore the deeper truths of the nativity story, why the details matter, and how we can share that with our kids in a way that builds their faith.

Here are a few highlights from our conversation:

  • Why understanding the virgin birth is crucial to understanding who Jesus really is
  • The difference between the cultural version of Christmas and what Scripture actually says
  • How to talk to kids about the parts of the story that might confuse them (like the wise men and the timeline!)
  • And yes, we even touch on Santa and how to navigate that as Christian parents

Lee Strobel is a former legal editor for the Chicago Tribune and a New York Times bestselling author of more than forty books, including The Case for Christ and The Case for Faith. After investigating the claims of Christianity as an atheist, he became a follower of Jesus and now speaks and writes to help others explore faith with confidence. His newest book, The Case for Christmas, explores the historical and biblical evidence behind the nativity story.

Whether youve heard the Christmas story a hundred times or are learning it with your kids for the first time, this conversation will give you a fresh perspective and a renewed sense of awe.

(00:00) From Atheism to Faith: Lee Strobel's Journey

(03:00) The Cultural Significance of Christmas

(05:47) Revisiting the Nativity Story: Myths vs. Reality

(09:04) Understanding the Virgin Birth

(12:12) The Role of the Magi in the Christmas Story

(14:56) The Importance of Context in Biblical Narratives

(18:05) The Legacy of Saint Nicholas and Santa Claus

(20:47) Celebrating Christmas with Children

(24:01) The True Meaning of Christmas

Connect with Lee

LeeStrobel.com

Lee Strobel X 

Case For Christmas 

Resources Mentioned

Lees books

Case For Christmas 

Christian Parenting resources

The Christian Parenting Podcast: Faith, apologetics, and the supernatural with Lee Strobel

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The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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Dec 9 • 29:01
When Christmas doesnt go as planned with Sheila Walsh

The lights are twinkling, the carols are playing, and everything should feel magical... but sometimes, it just doesnt. Whether your kids are navigating big feelings of disappointment or you're trying to balance joy and weariness in your own heart, this conversation is for you.

This week Im joined by author and speaker Sheila Walsh, and were talking about what really matters this Christmas: Gods love, Emmanuel with us, and how to guide our children through holiday letdowns with grace, presence, and prayer.

Here are just a few things we talked about:

  •  How to help kids walk through disappointment (even when they dont get the part they wanted in the play)
  •  Why our prayers for our children matter more than any gift we could ever wrap
  •  Simple ways to re-center your home on Jesus in a culture thats always asking for more
  • How unmet expectations can be invitations to discover God's love more deeply

Sheilas brand-new picture book, The Little Drummer Girl, tells a beautiful story about a child who doesnt get what she wants and instead finds the joy of giving to Jesus. Its such a special book to read together this season. You can find the link in the show notes!

Sheila Walsh is a best-selling author, Bible teacher, speaker, and co-host of TBNs Praise. She has written over 50 books for women and children, including Its Okay Not to Be Okay, Holding On When You Want to Let Go, and The Storm Inside. Her new book, The Little Drummer Girl, is a heartwarming Christmas story for kids about faith, giving, and the love of Jesus.

So whether youre on your third cup of cocoa or hiding wrapping paper in the closet, I hope this episode wraps around you like a warm blanket and reminds you: Jesus is with us. Thats what matters most.

(00:00) Embracing the Christmas Spirit

(02:52) Sheila Walsh: A Journey of Faith and Family

(05:59) The Heart of Christmas: Lessons from Isabella

(08:59) Navigating Disappointments: Teaching Kids Resilience

(12:06) The Power of Prayer in Parenting

(15:05) Finding Joy in Community and Service

(18:13) Understanding God's Love and Forgiveness

(20:47) The Impact of Prayer Across Generations

(24:08) Celebrating God's Plan in Our Lives

(26:54) The Gift of Christmas: Sharing God's Love

Connect with Sheila

Website

Facebook 

Instagram

Better Together show

Resources Mentioned

The Little Drummer Girl book

Christian Parenting resources

Christian Parenting Christmas Gift Guide

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The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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Dec 2 • 30:45
Parenting was never meant to be done alone with Elisa Morgan

Lets be honest, parenting can feel incredibly isolating at times. Whether you're in a full house or navigating solo moments between the chaos, its easy to feel like no one really sees what you're carrying. But heres the good news: you were never meant to do this alone. This weeks conversation is a beautiful reminder of that truth.

I had the joy of sitting down with Elisa Morgan. And let me tell you, her wisdom is like a warm hug and a pep talk wrapped in one. We talked all about community: the kind that meets us in our mess, challenges us with grace, and reminds us were not the only ones still figuring this out.

Heres what youll take away from our time together:

  • Why showing up as you are is the key to finding meaningful friendships
  • How biblical community helps us grow spiritually and emotionally
  • What to do when you feel disconnected or unseen
  • Ways to nurture authentic relationships in every season of motherhood

Elisa is a speaker, author, and podcaster with Our Daily Bread Ministries, and formerly served as president of MOPS International (now MomCo). She has a deep passion for encouraging women through honest stories of faith and motherhood. Elisas personal experience of brokenness and grace infuses her work with incredible hope and healing.

I hope this episode helps you feel just a little more seenand reminds you that you are never parenting alone.

(00:00) Introduction to Community and Personal Stories

(03:05) The Importance of Community in Parenting

(06:06) Navigating Changing Friendships

(09:12) The Role of Scripture in Community

(11:52) Encouragement for Women to Reach Out

(14:57) Building Relationships with Non-Christians

(18:00) Final Thoughts on Parenting and Community

Connect with Elisa

Instagram

God Hears Her podcast

Blog

Website

Resources Mentioned

God Hears Her podcast

MomCo

Christian Parenting resources

Christian Parenting Christmas Gift Guide

Fizzlebop Super Science Board Books

Prefer video? This episode is on YouTube!

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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Nov 25 • 29:01
Finding faith in unanswered prayers with Kara Stout

Hey friend,

We all know the ache of unanswered prayer, the kind that keeps us up at 2 a.m., whispering desperate prayers into the dark. 

This week on the podcast, I sat down with Kara Stout, who knows that ache all too well. From infertility and adoption to financial stress and deep grief, Karas story is one of wrestling with disappointment, surrendering expectations, and still choosing to trust a good and faithful God.

This conversation is for anyone whos walked through the valley and wondered if God was still near. Kara gently reminds us: He is. Even when it hurts.

Here are a few things we talk about:

  • What it looks like to pray through grief instead of performing for God
  • How to hold space for fear, faith, and surrender at the same time
  • The simple but powerful gift of morning and evening prayer rhythms
  • Why honesty with God invites deeper healing

Kara Stout is a writer, speaker, wife, and mom who has walked through more than her share of heartache, but shes also found the beauty of Gods nearness in it all. Her new devotional, An Untroubled Heart, is a 30-day prayer guide to help you start and end your days grounded in Gods presence. She is passionate about helping women grow deeper roots of faith even in hard seasons.

Let this episode remind you that unanswered prayer doesnt mean unseen painand healing often begins in the honesty of the wait.

With love,

Steph

Connect with Kara

KaraStout.com

Instagram

Facebook

Resources Mentioned

An Untroubled Heart book

Christian Parenting resources

Christian Parenting Christmas Gift Guide

Prefer video? This episode is on YouTube!

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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About the Host

Steph Thurling

Steph Thurling is Executive Director of Christian Parenting and host of The Christian Parenting Podcast.

Steph has her master’s in youth, family, and culture from Fuller Theological Seminary and has a background in youth and children’s ministry. She is co-author of Raising Prayerful Kids, a book that shares easy, life-giving, and fun ways to teach kids to pray. She loves helping families grow closer to each other and to God through meaningful experiences and conversations. Steph is a frequent speaker at churches and mom groups and is known for her relatable stories, practical ideas, and gentle encouragement.

Steph lives in Minnesota with her husband and three amazing and hilarious kids. When she is not hanging out with her family, you can probably find her on a walk with a friend, organizing things that won’t stay organized, or somewhere cozy reading a book.

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