Choosing a school - our story & why its okay to pivot with Trevor Thurling
Jun 3 • 28:13
Choosing a school - our story & why its okay to pivot with Trevor Thurling
Episode:

Choosing a school - our story & why its okay to pivot with Trevor Thurling

June 3, 2025 • 28:13 • Steph Thurling

Were kicking off a brand-new series all about school choices because lets be honest, its something many of us didnt realize would be such a big parenting decision. Over the next five weeks we will be covering the pros and cons of multiple different school options: public school, private school, homeschool, and online school.

In this first episode, Im joined by my husband, Trevor, as we share our personal journey through public school, homeschooling, and Christian private school and why were always open to changing paths if thats whats best for our family.

Here are four key takeaways from our conversation:

  • Your school decision doesnt have to be forever. Weve learned its okay to reevaluate and pivot when needed.
  • Gods guidance matters more than a perfect plan. Seeking him first gives peace in the uncertainty.
  • Every option has pros and cons. We talk candidly about what worked (and what didnt) in each of our experiences.
  • This is a judgment-free zone. This whole series is about informing, not convincing so you can make the best choice for your family.

Trevor is my husband, parenting partner, and co-navigator of all things school-related. Hes walked through this journey with me step by step, and together weve faced the highs, lows, and many what now? moments that come with raising school-aged kids in todays world.

I hope this episode encourages you and reminds you that youre not alone in figuring this stuff out. Lets keep seeking God and trusting him to lead the way.

(00:00) Navigating School Choices

(02:52) The Impact of COVID on Education

(06:08) Homeschooling vs. Private School

(08:52) Values and Priorities in Education

(11:48) Making Informed Decisions

(15:00) The Role of Finances in Education

(17:53) Understanding Your Child's Needs

(20:57) Making Big Decisions Together

(23:54) Finding Peace in Uncertainty

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The Christian Parenting Podcast

With Steph Thurling
As believing parents, we know how important it is to raise our kids with love and intentionality. We want to give our kids a full picture of God's love for them every day! But some days, it's really hard! We are stretched thin, tired, and often feel unequipped. The Christian Parenting Podcast gives parents the space and resources to set aside perfection and grow into the perfectly imperfect parents God made them to be. Join host Steph Thurling and her guests as they discuss practical tips and spiritual guidance for your parenting journey.
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Sep 9 • 38:00
How to embrace adventure as a family with Dan and Sam Matthews

Welcome back to the Christian Parenting Podcast! I hope youre ready for a really fun, really doable conversation that might just spark your next memory-making moment.

This week, Im chatting with Dan and Sam Matthews. They are parents, content creators, and big believers in family adventures. You might know them from their videos online, but today, were going beyond the highlight reel and digging into what it really looks like to choose adventure in your everyday life.

Whether youre dreaming of a road trip or just looking to make Saturday pizza night more intentional, this episode is packed with practical encouragement.

Heres what we covered:

How to create a family culture of adventure (even if youre not an adventure person)

Why small moments, like a backyard campout matter just as much as big vacations

Tips for staying flexible and faithful when kids melt down or plans fall apart

How saying yes to adventure helps our kids grow in resilience and trust

If your family feels stuck in the same old routine, this episode is your reminder that adventure doesnt require plane tickets or perfect weather, just a little intention and a lot of grace.

Dan and Sam are a husband and wife duo passionate about family, faith, and making the most of every moment. Known for their joyful content and honest approach to parenting, theyre the authors of Always Choose Adventure, a book filled with practical tips and inspiring stories to help you build a family life full of purpose, connection, and fun. You can follow them online and grab their book via the link in the show notes!

Until next week, keep parenting with purpose and choosing the adventurebig or small.

(03:00) The Importance of Family Adventures

(06:13) Creating Lasting Memories Through Adventure

(09:01) Navigating Challenges and Learning from Experiences

(11:48) Faith and Family: Exploring Spirituality Through Adventure

(15:11) Intentional Living: Simplifying Life and Giving Back

(19:14) Expanding Perspectives Through Travel

(20:12) Teaching Values: Tithing and Giving

(21:49) Experiencing Service: Family Missions

(22:45) Pursuing Time Freedom: A New Lifestyle

(24:35) Finding Adventure in Everyday Life

(31:32) Encouragement for Families: Breaking the Routine

Connect with Dan and Sam

Website

Instagram

Facebook

We Are Dan and Sam YouTube

Resources Mentioned

Always Choose Adventure book

Christian Parenting resources

Subscribe to Christian Parentings Friday Favorites

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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Sep 8 • 13:32
BONUS: Praying for your kids this school year

Hey friends, today weve got something special for you: a bonus episode straight from the Pardon the Mess podcast!

Every Monday, host Courtney DeFeo shares a short prayer to help you lift up your kids. This years series follows Christian Parentings brand new prayer journal, A Great Cloud of Witnesses

Each week highlights a biblical hero of the faith, paired with Scripture-based prayers for your kids. Here is a sneak peek into week one:

This first week is all about Noaha man of incredible faith and obedience. While the world around him turned away from God, Noah walked in righteousness. Building the ark probably looked foolish to everyone else, but Noah trusted Gods word even when it didnt make sense. Thats the kind of faith we want for our kids: to listen to Gods voice over any others and walk confidently with Him even when it means standing apart.

If you love this episode and dont have your copy of A Great Cloud of Witnesses yet, its not too late to get yours! Go ChristianParenting.org to get your copy and follow along. And dont forget to tune in to Pardon the Mess every Monday for more prayer episodes. 

Order A Great Cloud of Witnesses today

Follow Pardon the Mess on Apple or Spotify

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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Sep 2 • 34:09
Helping our kids find their identity in Christ with Emma Mae McDaniel

This weeks episode is one that speaks straight to the heart especially for those of us raising kids in a digital world.

Im joined by joy-filled Emma Mae McDaniel, a speaker and writer who shares her powerful story of navigating cyberbullying and learning to root her identity in Christ rather than the words of others. Her story is raw, redemptive, and full of practical encouragement.

We talked about:

How Emma learned to respond to cruelty with grace

The importance of building a daily habit of being in Gods Word

What it looks like to help our kids form their own faith, not just borrow ours

How God uses our pain for His glory and purpose

Whether youre parenting a teen whos struggling with identity or walking through your own healing, this episode is going to speak life over you.

Emma is a speaker, author, and passionate encourager who loves pointing people to Jesus. She is the author of The Girl in the Middle and travels around the country sharing messages of identity, faith, and courage with teens and women. Her authenticity and joy are contagious, and her wisdom is rooted deeply in scripture.

00:00 Introduction to Emma Mae

02:58 Emma's Journey into Ministry

06:00 The Impact of Cyberbullying

11:53 Finding Identity in Christ

18:05 Encouragement for Parents

24:00 Daily Habits for Spiritual Growth

Connect with Emma Mae

Website

Instagram

The Compelled Podcast with Emma Mae

The Girl in the Middle book

Resources Mentioned

Praise God, All Creatures book

Christian Parenting resources

Subscribe to Christian Parentings Friday Favorites

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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Aug 26 • 32:08
Making room for what matters with Kari Kampakis

In a world that constantly pushes us to hustle harder and do more, this weeks conversation is a breath of fresh air. I sat down with the wise and grace-filled Kari Kampakis, and she reminded us of something so important: sometimes the most faithful thing we can do is make peace with accomplishing less in a day.

As parents, it's easy to feel like we need to keep up with everything: our careers, commitments, expectations, and a perfectly run household. But what if slowing down is actually the bravest and most obedient thing we can do? Kari gives us permission to step back, breathe, and create space for the things that really matter.

Here are four takeaways from our conversation:

  • How doing less can actually strengthen your parenting and your peace
  • Why margin in your schedule creates more room for spiritual growth
  • Ways to listen to God's leading in the pace of your family life
  • The freedom that comes when you stop chasing shoulds and start embracing enough

Kari Kampakis is a mom of four daughters, a bestselling author, speaker, and host of The Girl Mom Podcast. Her books, including Love Her Well and More Than a Mom, have encouraged countless women to parent with purpose, grace, and deep faith. Karis message is always full of wisdom and grounded in truth and this conversation is no different.

I hope this episode helps you take a deep breath and remember: you dont have to do it all to be a faithful parent.

(00:00) Introduction to Parenting Dynamics

(03:08) Navigating the Challenges of Modern Parenting

(05:58) Building Lifelong Relationships with Our Children

(08:47) The Importance of Connection in Parenting

(12:07) Embracing Imperfection in Parenting

(16:24) Embracing Vulnerability in Parenting

(17:16) Navigating Big Emotions

(18:40) Understanding Adolescent Emotional Development

(20:32) Staying Grounded as a Parent

(24:01) Connecting Before Correcting

(27:32) Self-Care for Moms

(30:00) Modeling Healthy Behaviors for Future Generations

Connect with Kari

KariKampakis.com

Instagram

Girl Mom podcast

Resources Mentioned

Karis books

Raising Kind Daughters episode on The Christian Parenting Podcast

Christian Parenting resources

A Great Cloud of Witnesses prayer journal

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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Aug 19 • 30:54
Building a strong, grace-filled family with Jessica Smartt

Hey Friends,

What does it really mean to build a strong family? Not a perfect one, but one grounded in love, grace, and connection? Thats exactly what were digging into this week on the podcast. Im joined by the wonderful Jessica Smartt, and this conversation is the cozy encouragement every parent needs right now.

From navigating sibling squabbles to embracing the uniqueness of your kids, Jessica brings both wisdom and warmth. If your heart feels weary or your home feels chaotic, I promise this episode will feel like a deep breath and a much-needed hug.

Here are four takeaways from our conversation:

  • Why embracing your kids' personalities makes space for stronger connection
  • The role of prayer in anchoring your home in peace
  • How to guide sibling dynamics with grace (not just control!)
  • Ways to cultivate a home that feels safe, joyful, and full of belonging

Jessica is a homeschooling mom of three, speaker, and author of several books including her newest release, Come On Home: Building a Home That Welcomes and Strengthens Your Family. With a relatable, heartfelt voice, Jessica shares from her own family life, encouraging moms to press into the everyday moments that matter most.

If youve ever needed a reminder that strong families are built, not born, this episode is for you.

With Love, 

Steph

Resources Mentioned

A Great Cloud of Witnesses prayer journal

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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About the Host

Steph Thurling

Steph Thurling is Executive Director of Christian Parenting and host of The Christian Parenting Podcast.

Steph has her master’s in youth, family, and culture from Fuller Theological Seminary and has a background in youth and children’s ministry. She is co-author of Raising Prayerful Kids, a book that shares easy, life-giving, and fun ways to teach kids to pray. She loves helping families grow closer to each other and to God through meaningful experiences and conversations. Steph is a frequent speaker at churches and mom groups and is known for her relatable stories, practical ideas, and gentle encouragement.

Steph lives in Minnesota with her husband and three amazing and hilarious kids. When she is not hanging out with her family, you can probably find her on a walk with a friend, organizing things that won’t stay organized, or somewhere cozy reading a book.

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