Empowering Your Child as a First-Time Voter

Is your young-adult child making their inaugural trip to the ballot box in November? They definitely won’t be alone.

In fact, an estimated 8 million Americans will be aging into voter eligibility and over 40 million voters will be from Gen Z. And another 3.5 million adults have become naturalized citizens since the 2020 election. So suffice it to say they’ll be alongside many others making their first trek to the polls.

Is your child feeling overwhelmed by the prospect of voting? Are they tuning out anything related to politics?

At this point who can blame them? The 2024 presidential election may be the most contentious election in our nation’s history. That makes the weight of responsibility for us as voters feel heavy.

So, how can your children prepare for their first trip to the ballot box? And as a parent, how can you best encourage them to vote and make their own independent decisions without overstepping?

Let’s dive into some practical steps you can suggest to your kids so they can walk into the voting booth with confidence ready to proudly sport an “I Voted” sticker. And read to the end to find some advice for you as a parent.

Six practical steps to share with your kids to prepare for voting

Stick to Biblical truths and your personal convictions, but remain open minded.

On some topics, it’s good to have hardline stances. God has laid out clear guidelines for us in scripture related to many issues at the center of this year’s election(s).

But what about all the issues for which the Bible doesn’t have direct answers?

Ponder a vast array of perspectives. Politicians play a game of finding what voters believe will best improve their lives and then make those points central to their campaign regardless of whether public opinion is right or wrong on the subject.

And since most people tend to form opinions based on how a policy will impact them, factors like religion, lifestyle, ethnicity, education, career, family, home, geographic location, economic status etc often play a deciding role in how people see an issue.

So make an effort to find opposing voices and understand “the why” behind each side’s stances. Digest news, interviews, and commentary from voices with different backgrounds than yourself.

Practical Tip: Initiate conversations with family, friends, and co-workers of varying backgrounds and world views. If you’re unsure about issues like immigration, foreign policy, healthcare, education, etc., ask questions and prayerfully listen to what people have to say. If something doesn’t make sense, though, don’t be afraid to ask followup questions as well.

But always remain civil, approaching tricky subjects with humility and genuine curiosity. You might just find unexpected common ground.

Find news publishers and sources you trust.

Every news network, newspaper, and now social media news personality will be giving this election their full energy to fight for your attention. That means the normal rules of engagement in media are out the window for the next few months.

Be careful what you hear or read. Vet the source and apply a sense of suspicion to anything that doesn’t seem right. Did that post come from a respected outlet or journalist? Was a soundbite of a candidate edited to make them look bad (or good)? Does that popular TikToker’s viral post about a critical issue have any credibility?

I’d also encourage you to identify a diverse set of sources. Do your best to avoid information gathering from an “echo-chamber,” i.e. only absorbing right or left-wing content.

Practical Tip: Find five news sources. Explore their websites, follow them on social media or download their app and sign up for their push notifications. Make sure to choose outlets from both sides of the aisle to get the full story on every headline.

Listen to podcasts

These long-form discussions often go much deeper into the issues than TV interviews or edited clips online. Podcasts serve as primary spots for candidates and political pundits to dive into policies and messaging.

Find shows or episodes with candidates themselves being interviewed, or with political commentators who have solid knowledge on the political environment.

It’s okay to listen to shows that may have totally different stances on issues than yourself. This will open up your mind to why many of your fellow Americans are considering voting opposite of you. Even if it just serves to reinforce your beliefs, you’re still broadening your scope of perception.

Practical Tip: Listen to the Denison Forum Podcast for biblical discussions on hard hitting political and cultural topics. Also browse this list of the top political podcasts. Find a few from different sides of the aisle that stand out to you and give them a listen.

Follow politics on social media

Social media can be a great place to gather loads of information from many different sources in one location.

Candidates often speak openly and candidly on their social accounts. You can see a raw version of a candidate and know what message they are sending without even having to go to a news source.

Plus journalists, news publishers and political influencers are constantly pushing out information on social media…particularly on X (formerly Twitter), but increasingly on Instagram and TikTok as well.

But you have to be careful. Avoid any online spats. Those are public and can turn ugly fast and political fights are truly not worth damaged relationships. Not to mention, it’s extremely unlikely you’ll change someone’s mind in a comment section.

Practical Tip: Follow Denison Forum on X or Facebook for daily updates on top political stories.

Educate yourself on the candidate’s policies.

What are the candidate’s main visions for their prospective term in office? Where do they land on the issues that matter most to you?

It’s best to hear an agenda directly from the candidate with no media spin. This will help you to make up your mind on your own and stand firm behind your final decision.

Campaign websites are a great starting place. Here candidates will share their vision and policies on key issues, offering you the opportunity to parse through details on what matters most to you.

But the best way to truly grasp a candidate’s agenda is to hear it directly from their mouth, with no editing. This happens in debates, speeches, press briefings and sit down TV or podcast interviews… the whole thing, not just out of context clips on social media.

And don’t assume that what a candidate used to believe is what they’re promising for the upcoming elections. Policies change, and you’re voting for who will best represent you across the coming years rather than in the past. So even if you think you’re aware of what a candidate believes, it’s worth checking to make sure that’s still the case.

Practical Tip: See where candidates stand on primary issues in one location on USA Today’s Voter Guide.

Watch or attend debates

Presidential debates are cultural events, drawing massive viewership ratings that stimulate conversations (and memes) for weeks. But they’re more than just a source of entertainment.

Debates offer you the opportunity to hear opposing rationales from anyone seeking office in local and national elections. You’ll get a glimpse of how they interact with each other, moderators, crowds, cameras, and even you as a citizen while they work to earn your vote.

And though we’ll only have a handful of presidential debates, there will be thousands of other debates this year across all levels of government spanning the entire nation.

When you show up to vote in November, it won’t just be for the executive branch. You’ll also have down ballot votes to cast for congress and other state and local government positions with many hosting debates that can be attended in person or streamed online.

If you can’t tune into a debate, many news outlets will publish summaries and highlight the key takeaways from the showdowns.

Practical Tip: Watch the remaining Presidential and Vice Presidential debates and then wade through analysis published by news outlets in the subsequent days.

Parents, let your young adults decide for themselves

With major generational differences in 2024, there’s a high likelihood that your child will not see the world the way you do. And if you’re a parent to a first-time voter, you may be tempted to influence them to vote like you…but don’t.

The best thing you can do though s simply motivate them to vote, reinforcing that their voice matters. And even if their opinions land on the polar opposite spectrum from your own, simply giving them the space to independently decide how to cast their vote will go a long way. Do your best to circumvent frustration if they don’t see eye-to-eye with your political stances.

This will encourage them to ask you questions. There’s a good chance your kids (even the ones who aren’t old enough to vote yet) actually want to know your opinions on key issues!

Practical Tip: Talk to your kids about politics and offer wisdom, apply scripture when necessary but avoid outright suggestions on how they should vote. Open the floor for civil discussions offering a safe space for everyone to speak their mind and ask questions.

Exercise your freedoms

Christians represent God above any political party or candidate. Be wary of the temptation to let your political beliefs become so loud that it drowns out your public walk with Christ or damages relationships within your family.

We live in a free country, but ultimately our freedom is found in Jesus (Galatians 5:1). Pray about how the Lord may be leading you to vote and how to love your children well through such a heated election season.

We are blessed to live in a democracy that affords us the right to have a voice in government representation. Now it’s up to all of us to take advantage of our voting rights by praying, researching, and casting ballots with confidence this November.

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