Preach the Gospel to yourself first, then your children

Preach the gospel to yourself first, then your children

Sin.  That heavy, one-syllable word that can feel like a gut punch when we stop and ponder our own. As Christian parents we can jokingly say we’re…


Overcoming the spirit of fear with children

Overcoming the spirit of fear with children

“What do you want the judge to decide in court tomorrow?” my daughter asked. “Whatever God wants, I want.” “But what do you think will happen?” “I…


Giving Jesus our burdens

Giving Jesus our burdens

Talking with my sister the other day, she told me her teenage daughters (the two older of her four children) had both been crying the previous day…


Parenting when you can’t see the forest for the trees

Parenting when you can’t see the forest for the trees

#Stoptheclock This is the hashtag I added to an Instagram post of my daughter during her high school senior year. On one hand, it was simply a futile…


How slowing down can make us better parents

How slowing down can make us better parents

Last December, I realized something had to change. Perhaps it was feeling pain grip my chest amid holding a crying, thirty-pound toddler, whisking a…


Why we don't say

Why we don't say "best friend"

Language is one of my favorite subjects to study and think about. I’ve always told my students that whoever owns the dictionary owns the culture. It…


3 ways to guide your children to emotional wholeness

3 ways to guide your children to emotional wholeness

It felt like the world was falling apart around me. I had just gotten home from a long day of seeing clients, and all I wanted was a shower,…


Shaping Christian virtue through reading aloud

Shaping Christian virtue through reading aloud

Stories have power When my husband and I had three young boys under the age of four, I discovered the captivating effect of books and reading aloud.…


3 principles for effective family discipleship

3 principles for effective family discipleship

You've been trying to disciple your kids, but they just won't pay attention. It may feel like you’re trying to get a group of squirrels to sit still…