163. Why Talking to Your Adult Kids Feels So Hard--And How to Fix It!
Apr 10 • 14:52
163. Why Talking to Your Adult Kids Feels So Hard--And How to Fix It!
Episode:

163. Why Talking to Your Adult Kids Feels So Hard--And How to Fix It!

April 10, 2025 • 14:52 • Pamela Henkelman

Its not just you; there are real barriers to communication with your grown child.

Listen in to identify ten common communication barriers and learn a solution for each. When you understand what youre up against, you can build a strategy to reconnect with your grown child.

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Free Guide: 10 Things Not to Say to Your Adult Child(And 5 Ways to Stop Yourself from Saying Them) here

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Podcast:

Midlife Momma

With Pamela Henkelman
Welcome to The Midlife Momma Podcast, the go-to resource for empty nest moms ready to embrace the next chapter of life with confidence and purpose! Join me, Pamela Henkelman, a certified Empty Nest Coach and proud momma of five, as we navigate this transformative journey together. Each week, we dive into essential topics that matter most to midlife moms, including: Setting and maintaining boundaries Rediscovering your life’s purpose Mastering effective communication with adult children Strengthening your marriage in the empty nest season Leaning on faith to guide your journey Follow The Midlife Momma Podcast now to join a community of like-minded moms and start your journey toward confidence, connection, and fulfillment in this exciting new chapter of motherhood. The Midlife Momma podcast is part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. Find more information at www.ChristianParenting.org
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When the kids leave home, many couples discover they dont know how to talk anymore. Christian marriage counselors Chris and Jamie Bailey share practical, faith-filled insights on improving communication in empty-nest marriages, so couples can move from roommates to meaningful connection.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Chris & Jamie's website here

Free Guide: Marriage Awareness Worksheet here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

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Feb 19 • 14:58
208. When Your Empty Nest Marriage Feels Like Roommates: 6 Ways to Reconnect

Does your empty nest marriage feel more like roommates than partners? In this episode, we talk about why connection often fades after the kids leave home and share six practical, grace-filled steps to help you reconnect emotionally, physically, and spiritually with your husband. Its not too late to grow close again.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Christian Parenting's Morning Minute here

Free Guide: Marriage Awareness Worksheet here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

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Pamela's website with free resources here

Feb 12 • 25:07
207. Praying Together in the Empty Nest: Rebuilding Spiritual Intimacy as a Couple with Bob and Pamela Henkelman

When the house gets quieter, many couples realize theyve drifted spiritually. In this special episode, I sit down with my husband, Bob, a pastor and fellow empty nester, to talk honestly about praying together as a couple. We share why praying together matters, why it can feel awkward, and simple ways to begin rebuilding spiritual intimacy in the empty nest.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Free Guide: Marriage Awareness Worksheet here

Apply for Coaching with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

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Pamela's website with free resources here

Feb 5 • 16:16
206. Six Ways to Strengthen Your Empty Nest Marriage When You Feel Like Youre Growing Apart

When the kids leave home, many women are surprised by an ache they didnt expect; distance in their marriage. The house is quieter, the roles have changed, and the connection with your husband can feel strained or fragile. In this episode, Pamela shares 6 grace-filled ways to strengthen your empty nest marriage when you feel like youre growing apart. Through faith-based wisdom, Scripture, and gentle reflection, youll learn how awareness, prayer, and intentional love can help rebuild connection and restore hope.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Christian Parenting's Morning Minute here

Free Guide: The Marriage Awareness Worksheet here

Apply for Coaching with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

Review + Rate podcast here

Follow Pamela on Instagram here

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Pamela's website with free resources here

Jan 29 • 16:50
205. Six Questions Every Empty Nest Mom Should Ask to Discover Her God-Given Purpose

Whats your purpose now that your kids have left home? The empty nest often brings big questions about identity, meaning, and what God is doing next. In this episode of  Empty Nest, Coach Pamela Henkelman shares six faith-filled questions to help moms rediscover their God-given purpose after motherhood.

Rooted in Scripture and real-life wisdom, this conversation will encourage you to see the empty nest not as an ending, but as an invitation to trust God and step confidently into your next season.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Free Guide: Journaling Through Transitional Grief here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

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Pamela's website with free resources here

About the Host

Pamela Henkelman

Pamela Henkelman is a certified Empty Nest Coach, speaker, writer, and host of the Midlife Momma Podcast. With her bright smile and enthusiastic personality, she is passionate about encouraging women, particularly the often-forgotten group of moms with adult children. Pamela helps Christian moms launch their kids to college and enjoy their empty nest.

As a mom of five grown kids and three grandchildren, Pamela has first-hand experience with the challenges and joys of navigating the empty nest phase of life. She and her husband of 38 years are living their best empty nest life and loving every minute of it.

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