Living in the tension of overwhelmed and grateful as a parent with Jillian Benfield
Nov 11 • 26:11
Living in the tension of overwhelmed and grateful as a parent with Jillian Benfield
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Living in the tension of overwhelmed and grateful as a parent with Jillian Benfield

November 11, 2025 • 26:11 • Steph Thurling

Have you ever felt pulled between being deeply grateful and totally overwhelmed? Youre not alone, and todays conversation will meet you right in that tension.

Im joined by author and TV journalist Jillian Benfield, who shares her powerful story of navigating unexpected challenges and discovering a deeper, more honest relationship with God along the way. We talk about avoiding toxic positivity, embracing lifes hard and holy moments, and learning to live in the and.

Here are a few of my favorite takeaways:

  • How the Psalms teach us to see life through the lens of order, disorder, and reorder
  • What it means to raise emotionally aware kids using simple practices like highs and lows
  • Why honesty with God is more powerful than forced positivity
  • How to start practicing daily rhythms of gratitude and lament

Meet Jillian Benfield:

Jillian is a former TV journalist turned author and disability advocate. Her book, Overwhelmed & Grateful, invites readers to reframe unexpected seasons and find deeper purpose in the midst of pain. She writes and speaks with vulnerability, wisdom, and a deep heart for helping others see Gods goodness even when life doesnt go as planned.

With Love,

Steph

(03:02) Navigating Parenting Challenges

(06:08) The Power of Vulnerability

(08:56) Understanding Overwhelm and Gratitude

(11:55) Practicing Honest Gratitude

(14:55) Order, Disorder, and Reorder

(18:02) Finding God in the Everyday

(21:03) Creating a Daily Rhythm of Gratitude

(24:03) Connecting with Jillian Benfield

Connect with Jillian

Website

Facebook

Instagram

Resources Mentioned

Overwhelmed & Grateful book

Biggest Story Holy Bible for Kids

What to Say and How to Say it to Your Teens

Christian Parenting resources

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The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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As believing parents, we know how important it is to raise our kids with love and intentionality. We want to give our kids a full picture of God's love for them every day! But some days, it's really hard! We are stretched thin, tired, and often feel unequipped. The Christian Parenting Podcast gives parents the space and resources to set aside perfection and grow into the perfectly imperfect parents God made them to be. Join host Steph Thurling and her guests as they discuss practical tips and spiritual guidance for your parenting journey.
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This week Im joined by author and speaker Sheila Walsh, and were talking about what really matters this Christmas: Gods love, Emmanuel with us, and how to guide our children through holiday letdowns with grace, presence, and prayer.

Here are just a few things we talked about:

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Sheilas brand-new picture book, The Little Drummer Girl, tells a beautiful story about a child who doesnt get what she wants and instead finds the joy of giving to Jesus. Its such a special book to read together this season. You can find the link in the show notes!

Sheila Walsh is a best-selling author, Bible teacher, speaker, and co-host of TBNs Praise. She has written over 50 books for women and children, including Its Okay Not to Be Okay, Holding On When You Want to Let Go, and The Storm Inside. Her new book, The Little Drummer Girl, is a heartwarming Christmas story for kids about faith, giving, and the love of Jesus.

So whether youre on your third cup of cocoa or hiding wrapping paper in the closet, I hope this episode wraps around you like a warm blanket and reminds you: Jesus is with us. Thats what matters most.

(00:00) Embracing the Christmas Spirit

(02:52) Sheila Walsh: A Journey of Faith and Family

(05:59) The Heart of Christmas: Lessons from Isabella

(08:59) Navigating Disappointments: Teaching Kids Resilience

(12:06) The Power of Prayer in Parenting

(15:05) Finding Joy in Community and Service

(18:13) Understanding God's Love and Forgiveness

(20:47) The Impact of Prayer Across Generations

(24:08) Celebrating God's Plan in Our Lives

(26:54) The Gift of Christmas: Sharing God's Love

Connect with Sheila

Website

Facebook 

Instagram

Better Together show

Resources Mentioned

The Little Drummer Girl book

Christian Parenting resources

Christian Parenting Christmas Gift Guide

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The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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(00:00) Introduction to Community and Personal Stories

(03:05) The Importance of Community in Parenting

(06:06) Navigating Changing Friendships

(09:12) The Role of Scripture in Community

(11:52) Encouragement for Women to Reach Out

(14:57) Building Relationships with Non-Christians

(18:00) Final Thoughts on Parenting and Community

Connect with Elisa

Instagram

God Hears Her podcast

Blog

Website

Resources Mentioned

God Hears Her podcast

MomCo

Christian Parenting resources

Christian Parenting Christmas Gift Guide

Fizzlebop Super Science Board Books

Prefer video? This episode is on YouTube!

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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Hey friend,

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This conversation is for anyone whos walked through the valley and wondered if God was still near. Kara gently reminds us: He is. Even when it hurts.

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Kara Stout is a writer, speaker, wife, and mom who has walked through more than her share of heartache, but shes also found the beauty of Gods nearness in it all. Her new devotional, An Untroubled Heart, is a 30-day prayer guide to help you start and end your days grounded in Gods presence. She is passionate about helping women grow deeper roots of faith even in hard seasons.

Let this episode remind you that unanswered prayer doesnt mean unseen painand healing often begins in the honesty of the wait.

With love,

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Connect with Kara

KaraStout.com

Instagram

Facebook

Resources Mentioned

An Untroubled Heart book

Christian Parenting resources

Christian Parenting Christmas Gift Guide

Prefer video? This episode is on YouTube!

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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Whether youve walked this road yourself, are in the middle of it, or love someone who is, this episode is an invitation to sit with hope and trust that God is near, even in the waiting.

Here are a few truths Alice helped shine a light on:

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- Its okay to feel unseenGod still sees and is working in your story

- Waiting seasons can deepen our faith and strengthen our identity in Christ

- How to support others walking through infertility with compassion and sensitivity

Alice is a licensed marriage and family therapist, a wife, mom, and a missionary with the Navigators. She serves as the leader development initiative program director and is passionate about raising up disciple-makers in everyday life. Alices personal journey through infertility has shaped her deep belief in Gods faithfulness, even in unseen seasons.

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00:00 The Joys and Challenges of Parenting

02:54 The Journey of Infertility

05:53 Faith and Waiting

09:01 The Impact of Infertility on Relationships

12:01 Navigating Joy and Grief

14:52 Supporting Friends Through Infertility

17:59 The Miracle of Life

21:12 Celebrating the Gift of Children

Connect with Alice

AliceMatagora.com

Instagram

Facebook

TikTok

Resources Mentioned

You Are My Miracle book

Christian Parenting resources

Christian Parenting Christmas Gift Guide

Prefer video? This episode is on YouTube!

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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Nov 11 • 26:11
Living in the tension of overwhelmed and grateful as a parent with Jillian Benfield

Have you ever felt pulled between being deeply grateful and totally overwhelmed? Youre not alone, and todays conversation will meet you right in that tension.

Im joined by author and TV journalist Jillian Benfield, who shares her powerful story of navigating unexpected challenges and discovering a deeper, more honest relationship with God along the way. We talk about avoiding toxic positivity, embracing lifes hard and holy moments, and learning to live in the and.

Here are a few of my favorite takeaways:

  • How the Psalms teach us to see life through the lens of order, disorder, and reorder
  • What it means to raise emotionally aware kids using simple practices like highs and lows
  • Why honesty with God is more powerful than forced positivity
  • How to start practicing daily rhythms of gratitude and lament

Meet Jillian Benfield:

Jillian is a former TV journalist turned author and disability advocate. Her book, Overwhelmed & Grateful, invites readers to reframe unexpected seasons and find deeper purpose in the midst of pain. She writes and speaks with vulnerability, wisdom, and a deep heart for helping others see Gods goodness even when life doesnt go as planned.

With Love,

Steph

(03:02) Navigating Parenting Challenges

(06:08) The Power of Vulnerability

(08:56) Understanding Overwhelm and Gratitude

(11:55) Practicing Honest Gratitude

(14:55) Order, Disorder, and Reorder

(18:02) Finding God in the Everyday

(21:03) Creating a Daily Rhythm of Gratitude

(24:03) Connecting with Jillian Benfield

Connect with Jillian

Website

Facebook

Instagram

Resources Mentioned

Overwhelmed & Grateful book

Biggest Story Holy Bible for Kids

What to Say and How to Say it to Your Teens

Christian Parenting resources

Prefer video? This episode is on YouTube!

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Our Sponsors:
* Check out Everyday Dose and use my code CPPODCAST for a great deal: https://everydaydose.com
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
About the Host

Steph Thurling

Steph Thurling is Executive Director of Christian Parenting and host of The Christian Parenting Podcast.

Steph has her master’s in youth, family, and culture from Fuller Theological Seminary and has a background in youth and children’s ministry. She is co-author of Raising Prayerful Kids, a book that shares easy, life-giving, and fun ways to teach kids to pray. She loves helping families grow closer to each other and to God through meaningful experiences and conversations. Steph is a frequent speaker at churches and mom groups and is known for her relatable stories, practical ideas, and gentle encouragement.

Steph lives in Minnesota with her husband and three amazing and hilarious kids. When she is not hanging out with her family, you can probably find her on a walk with a friend, organizing things that won’t stay organized, or somewhere cozy reading a book.

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