189. Transitional Grief in the Empty Nest: How Christian Moms Can Cope with Gods Grace
Oct 9 • 14:06
189. Transitional Grief in the Empty Nest: How Christian Moms Can Cope with Gods Grace
Episode:

189. Transitional Grief in the Empty Nest: How Christian Moms Can Cope with Gods Grace

October 9, 2025 • 14:06 • Pamela Henkelman

Launching a child can leave even the strongest momma feeling undone. In this episode, we unpack transitional grief, what it is, how to recognize it, and why its a normal part of the empty nest journey. Youll learn practical ways to acknowledge your emotions, healthy strategies to cope, and how trusting God can bring comfort in the middle of change.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Free Guide: Journaling Through Transitional Grief here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

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Podcast:

Midlife Momma

With Pamela Henkelman
Welcome to The Midlife Momma Podcast, the go-to resource for empty nest moms ready to embrace the next chapter of life with confidence and purpose! Join me, Pamela Henkelman, a certified Empty Nest Coach and proud momma of five, as we navigate this transformative journey together. Each week, we dive into essential topics that matter most to midlife moms, including: Setting and maintaining boundaries Rediscovering your life’s purpose Mastering effective communication with adult children Strengthening your marriage in the empty nest season Leaning on faith to guide your journey Follow The Midlife Momma Podcast now to join a community of like-minded moms and start your journey toward confidence, connection, and fulfillment in this exciting new chapter of motherhood. The Midlife Momma podcast is part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. Find more information at www.ChristianParenting.org
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194 Untangled Advent: Finding Hope & Rest in the Empty Nest with Author Megan Nilsen

Hey Momma, do the holidays feel different now that the kids are grown? In this heartfelt Advent conversation, Pamela Henkelman and guest Megan Nilson, author of Untangled Advent: Finding Hope in a Weary World, talk about how empty-nest moms can release expectations, embrace spiritual rhythms, and rediscover peace this Christmas. If youre longing for a slower, more meaningful holiday season centered on Jesus, this episode will renew your heart and help you savor His presence in every moment.

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Untangled Advent by Megan Nilsen here

Free Guide: Journaling Through Transitional Grief here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

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Nov 6 • 13:50
193. When Grown Kids Cant Come Home: Finding Peace and Joy in New Traditions

What happens when not everyone can make it home for the holidays? For many empty nest moms, this new reality brings a wave of disappointment, but it doesnt have to steal your joy. Join Pamela as she shares six practical and faith-filled ways to approach holiday planning with your adult kids. Youll learn how to practice radical acceptance, lead with emotional steadiness, and discover that even when the traditions change, Gods love and family connection remain strong.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

CP Christmas Gift Guide here

Free Guide: Journaling Through Transitional Grief here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

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Oct 30 • 31:50
192. Staying Close When Your Grown Kids Live Far Away with Joanne McHugh

Hey Momma, what happens when your grown kids spread their wings, and their new home is in a different time zone? The distance can leave a tender ache in your heart.

In this heartfelt conversation, Im joined by Joanne McHugh, creator of Things Your Mom Should Have Told You, to talk about how to stay emotionally close even when the miles stretch long. Well explore how to accept the move, manage expectations, and keep your connection strong through faith and intentional rhythms.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Things Your Mom Should Have Told You newsletter

Free Guide: Journaling Through Transitional Grief here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

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Oct 23 • 14:27
191. Overwhelmed by Your Adult Kids' Struggles? Soul-Care Practices for Moms

Are you feeling weighed down by the struggles of your adult kids? In this episode, Pamela shares six soul-care practices to help Christian moms move from overwhelm to peace. With insights from Dr. Alison Cook, youll learn how to honor your needs, process emotions through Gods truth, and find rest in His presence. Momma, you dont have to carry it all. Come be reminded that God sees you, loves you, and is ready to restore your weary soul.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

CP Christmas Shopping Guide here

Free Guide: Journaling Through Transitional Grief here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

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Pamela's website with free resources here

Oct 16 • 31:01
190. Overcoming Worst-Case Scenario Thinking About Your Adult Child with Coach Jennifer Collins

Do you ever find yourself spiraling into worst-case scenarios about your adult child? In this episode, Pamela sits down with Master Coach Jennifer Collins, host of The Almost Empty Nest Podcast, to talk about why our minds default to fear and how to stop catastrophizing. Together they explore practical tools to quiet anxious thoughts, discern real concerns from imagined ones, and lean into Gods truth instead of panic.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Jennifer's Free Master Class here

Free Guide: Journaling Through Transitional Grief here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

Review + Rate podcast here

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Pamela's website with free resources here

About the Host

Pamela Henkelman

Pamela Henkelman is a certified Empty Nest Coach, speaker, writer, and host of the Midlife Momma Podcast. With her bright smile and enthusiastic personality, she is passionate about encouraging women, particularly the often-forgotten group of moms with adult children. Pamela helps Christian moms launch their kids to college and enjoy their empty nest.

As a mom of five grown kids and three grandchildren, Pamela has first-hand experience with the challenges and joys of navigating the empty nest phase of life. She and her husband of 38 years are living their best empty nest life and loving every minute of it.

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