171. Letting Go of Control: Trusting God with Your Adult Children
Jun 5 • 14:08
171. Letting Go of Control: Trusting God with Your Adult Children
Episode:

171. Letting Go of Control: Trusting God with Your Adult Children

June 5, 2025 • 14:08 • Pamela Henkelman

We hate to admit it, but many moms struggle with control. 

If you've found yourself lying awake at night, replaying their choices, wondering if you should have said more, done more, or prayed harder, this conversation is for you. Were talking about how to release control and trust God with your adult children.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Marriage Simplified Guide here

Free Guide: 10 Things Not to Say to Your Adult Child here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

Review + Rate podcast here

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Pamela's website with free resources here

Podcast:

Midlife Momma

With Pamela Henkelman
Welcome to The Midlife Momma Podcast, the go-to resource for empty nest moms ready to embrace the next chapter of life with confidence and purpose! Join me, Pamela Henkelman, a certified Empty Nest Coach and proud momma of five, as we navigate this transformative journey together. Each week, we dive into essential topics that matter most to midlife moms, including: Setting and maintaining boundaries Rediscovering your life’s purpose Mastering effective communication with adult children Strengthening your marriage in the empty nest season Leaning on faith to guide your journey Follow The Midlife Momma Podcast now to join a community of like-minded moms and start your journey toward confidence, connection, and fulfillment in this exciting new chapter of motherhood. The Midlife Momma podcast is part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. Find more information at www.ChristianParenting.org
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172. From Control to Surrender: Cultivating a Devotional Life with Rose Jordan

Your connection with God is what helps you move from control to surrender.

 Lets move beyond quiet time and find grace in the moment. Join me for an impactful discussion with Rose Jordan as we explore learning to connect with God in your everyday life, allowing you to let go of control and surrender every anxious moment to Him.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Penny Jar Prayers here

Beneath the Fig Tree podcast here

Rose's YouTube here

Free Guide: 10 Things Not to Say to Your Adult Child here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

Review + Rate podcast here

Follow Pamela on Instagram here

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Pamela's website with free resources here

Jun 5 • 14:08
171. Letting Go of Control: Trusting God with Your Adult Children

We hate to admit it, but many moms struggle with control. 

If you've found yourself lying awake at night, replaying their choices, wondering if you should have said more, done more, or prayed harder, this conversation is for you. Were talking about how to release control and trust God with your adult children.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Marriage Simplified Guide here

Free Guide: 10 Things Not to Say to Your Adult Child here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

Review + Rate podcast here

Follow Pamela on Instagram here

Follow Pamela on Facebook here

Pamela's website with free resources here

May 29 • 26:35
170. Brave in the Empty Nest: Trusting God with Author Laura Smith

Feeling unsure, afraid, or stuck in the empty nest? 

Author Laura Smith shares how biblical bravery can help you face midlife with faith, purpose, and courage. Youll be encouraged to trust God and take your next brave stepright where you are.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Free Chapter Brave Woman, Mighty God here

Free Guide: 10 Things Not to Say to Your Adult Child here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

Review + Rate podcast here

Follow Pamela on Instagram here

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Pamela's website with free resources here

May 22 • 12:48
169. From Pressure to Peace: 6 Ways Prayer Helps Christian Moms Stop People-Pleasing

169. From Pressure to Peace: 6 Ways Prayer Helps Christian Moms Stop People-Pleasing

Tired of walking on eggshells with your adult kids? In this episode, discover six ways prayer helps Christian moms break free from people-pleasing and find lasting peace. Learn how to set boundaries, surrender control, and please God above all.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Marriage Simplified Guide here

Free Guide: 10 Things Not to Say to Your Adult Child here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

Review + Rate podcast here

Follow Pamela on Instagram here

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Pamela's website with free resources here

May 15 • 12:37
168. How People Pleasing Hurts Your Relationship with Your Adult Child

Hey Momma, are you always trying to keep the peace, say yes to everything, and avoid rocking the boat with your adult kids? 

Youre not alone. Were talking about people-pleasing: why we do it, how it drains us, and how it impacts our relationships with our grown kids. Its time to release the pressure to please and start showing up as your whole, authentic self. You have Gods full approvaland that changes everything.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Free Guide: 10 Things Not to Say to Your Adult Child here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

Review + Rate podcast here

Follow Pamela on Instagram here

Follow Pamela on Facebook here

Pamela's website with free resources here

About the Host

Pamela Henkelman

Pamela Henkelman is a certified Empty Nest Coach, speaker, writer, and host of the Midlife Momma Podcast. With her bright smile and enthusiastic personality, she is passionate about encouraging women, particularly the often-forgotten group of moms with adult children. Pamela helps Christian moms launch their kids to college and enjoy their empty nest.

As a mom of five grown kids and three grandchildren, Pamela has first-hand experience with the challenges and joys of navigating the empty nest phase of life. She and her husband of 38 years are living their best empty nest life and loving every minute of it.

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