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Let's Parent on Purpose is a weekly podcast designed to strengthen your marriage, parenting, and personal relationship with Jesus. Host Jay Holland provides examples from God's word, real life success and failure stories, and lots of humility from his 20+ years of student ministry, parenting, foster parenting, and counseling others. Each episode you'll receive an insight or interview that will help you thrive, not just survive your parenting years.
You can find more from Jay at LetsParentOnPurpose.com or follow him on Facebook and Instagram.
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Ep. 384: The 31 Day Marriage Prayer Challenge with Aaron Smith →
Jay Holland and Aaron Smith explore the transformative power of the gospel and prayer in relationships, particularly in marriage. They discuss the importance of recognizing one's identity in Christ, the challenges of receiving correction, and the significance of prayer as a means to align hearts with God's will. The discussion also highlights the 31-Day Marriage Prayer Challenge, designed to encourage couples to pray for each other and deepen their spiritual connection. Through personal anecdotes and biblical insights, they emphasize that prayer not only changes circumstances but also transforms individuals, fostering a deeper understanding of love and grace in relationships.
Takeaways
- Seeing your marriage as a ministry is crucial.
- It's important to not sacrifice family for ministry.
- Authenticity in leadership is essential for true connection.
- Accountability helps prevent disqualification in ministry.
- Being transparent about struggles fosters genuine relationships.
- Elders and deacons play a vital role in church health.
- Critique should be received with humility and openness.
- The gospel provides a foundation for handling criticism.
- True fellowship involves knowing and being known by others.
- Leadership requires both leading and being approachable. The gospel reveals our true selves and lifts us up.
- Receiving correction is essential for growth.
- Prayer is a powerful tool for transformation in marriage.
- The 31-Day Prayer Challenge encourages couples to pray for each other.
- Prayer prompts help couples focus on specific needs.
- Aligning our hearts with God's will is crucial in prayer.
- Prayer changes our perspective on our spouse.
- The Holy Spirit guides us in our prayers.
- Gratitude in prayer opens our hearts to God's blessings.
- We can approach God directly in prayer, which is empowering.
Lets Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org
Bio
Aaron Smith is a Christian author, speaker, and co-founder of Marriage After God, a ministry dedicated to helping couples center their marriages on Christ. Alongside his wife, Jennifer, Aaron has written several books, including Marriage After God and 31 Prayers for My Spouse, equipping husbands and wives with biblical wisdom for a thriving, God-honoring relationship. Through blogging, social media, and the Marriage After God Podcast, Aaron encourages men to embrace their role as spiritual leaders in their homes. He is passionate about discipleship, marriage, and helping couples grow in faith together.
Resources mentioned:
The Marriage After God Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mag-marriage-advice-relationship-encouragement-we-discuss/id1349500084
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Ep. 383: How to Lighten the Baggage Our Children Carry with Chris Sasser →
Jay Holland and Chris Sasser explore the concept of emotional baggage that children carry into adulthood, particularly focusing on the pressures of performance, the importance of healthy relationships, and the role of parental influence. Chris shares insights from his book 'Bags', discussing common emotional burdens children face and practical ways parents can help lighten their load. The discussion emphasizes the significance of understanding one's identity in Christ and fostering connections over mere content delivery in parenting.
Lets Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org
Bio
Chris Sasser (a.k.a.Sass) is the Pastor of Family Ministries at Port City Community Church in Wilmington, NC. He has served in full-time ministry since 1993, working with childrens, middle school, high school, college, and parent ministries. He has a passion for equipping and encouraging parents and leaders to help the next generation walk with God. Chris shares thoughts and ideas at www.equipandencourage.com and loves to share with students, leaders, and parents. Chris is married to Karin, and they have two young adult children, CJ and Kylie.
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Ep. 382: (Part 2) How to Walk with Loved Ones Through Trauma with Eliza Huie →
In this conversation, Jay Holland and Eliza Huey continue to explore the complexities of trauma, its effects on individuals, and the importance of support systems. They discuss the evolution of understanding trauma, the role of God in times of suffering, and how Scripture can provide comfort. The conversation also delves into the concept of post-traumatic growth, emphasizing that trauma can lead to spiritual resilience and deeper faith. They highlight the need for proper trauma care, which includes establishing safety, processing experiences, and integrating them into one's life. Additionally, they address the challenges of information overload in today's world and how it can exacerbate feelings of trauma.
Lets Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org
Bio
Eliza Huie is a licensed professional counselor (LPC) trained in trauma care. She serves as a seminary instructor, facilitating certificate-level training in biblical counseling, and has authored several books, including her latest, Trauma Aware: A Christians Guide to Providing Help and Care. Eliza co-hosts Counsel for Life, a podcast about mental health and the Christian life.
Resources mentioned:
Trauma Aware: A Christians Guide to Providing Help and Care
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Ep. 381: (Part) 1 How to Walk with Loved Ones Through Trauma with Eliza Huie →
In this conversation, Jay Holland and Eliza Huey delve into the complexities of trauma, its definitions, and the importance of understanding its impact on individuals and relationships. They discuss the physiological responses to trauma, the significance of being present for those who have experienced trauma, and how caregivers can provide support. Eliza emphasizes the need for compassion and understanding in navigating trauma, highlighting the role of community and interpersonal relationships in the healing process.
Jay and Eliza also discussed the importance of presence in healing, the role of the nervous system in trauma, and practical techniques for awareness and regulation. They emphasize the significance of being with someone in their pain without trying to fix them, the necessity of understanding bodily responses to trauma, and the power of breathing techniques to help regulate emotions. The discussion also touches on the integration of body, mind, and spirit in the healing process, highlighting the need for a holistic approach to trauma care.
Lets Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org
Bio
Eliza Huie is a licensed professional counselor (LPC) trained in trauma care. She serves as a seminary instructor, facilitating certificate-level training in biblical counseling, and has authored several books, including her latest, Trauma Aware: A Christians Guide to Providing Help and Care. Eliza co-hosts Counsel for Life, a podcast about mental health and the Christian life.
Resources mentioned:
Trauma Aware: A Christians Guide to Providing Help and Care
Support Lets Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/
Ep. 380: Changing the Story of Your Generations with John Donges →
In this conversation, John Donges shares his journey from a challenging childhood marked by family dysfunction and abuse to finding faith and hope through a local church. He reflects on the impact of his upbringing in West Virginia, the struggles with his stepfather's abuse, and the transformative experience of discovering a relationship with God. John's story highlights the importance of community, resilience, and the ongoing challenges he faced even after embracing faith. In this conversation, Jay Holland and John Donges explore the profound themes of discipleship, the cost of following Jesus, and the transformative power of faith. They discuss the challenges faced by new believers, the importance of intentional parenting, and the impact of role models in shaping one's spiritual journey. The dialogue emphasizes the hope that comes from choosing to follow Christ and the potential for generational change through faith and commitment.
Lets Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org
Bio
John Donges is the husband of Jaclyn and father of three children. He is the CEO of Strategic Marketer and a member of Covenant Fellowship Baptist Church
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