Ep. 092: Toxic Relationships: The Manipulator
Jan 7 • 6:43
Ep. 092: Toxic Relationships: The Manipulator
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Ep. 092: Toxic Relationships: The Manipulator

January 7, 2025 • 6:43 • Jay Holland

In this episode of Guided by Faith, Jay discusses the theme of toxic relationships, focusing on the characteristics of manipulators. Drawing from Proverbs chapter 20, he emphasizes the importance of recognizing signs of dysfunction and the need for self-reflection. The conversation highlights the damaging effects of manipulation and gaslighting, encouraging listeners to distance themselves from toxic individuals and seek healthier relationships.

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About the Host

Jay Holland

Jay Holland is a follower of Jesus, a husband to Emily, and the biological and adoptive father of four children. For more than two decades Jay has served as a pastor in family and student ministries, and has walked through multiple special needs challenges within his own family.

Jay’s personal and pastoral experiences led him to launch the weekly Let’s Parent on Purpose podcast to equip and empower moms and dads to build thriving families. He serves at Covenant Fellowship Baptist Church in Stuart, Florida and is also on the board of Hopegivers, a ministry that cares for children and churches in India.

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