3 ways to guide your children to emotional wholeness

3 ways to guide your children to emotional wholeness

It felt like the world was falling apart around me. I had just gotten home from a long day of seeing clients, and all I wanted was a shower,…


Accepting help in motherhood

Accepting help in motherhood

I balanced a small box of baby clothes on top of my bump and stretched to reach the remaining box on the floor. “Bethany!” I heard my grandmother’s…


The cost of controlling our relationships

The cost of controlling our relationships

My middle son, Coen, is constantly breaking his toys. Not on purpose, but by forcing them to bend in directions they were not designed to bend. He…


Navigating a new family

Navigating a new family

It takes courage to walk into a ready-made family and love someone else’s children…and someone else’s husband. You see, I married a widower with two…


The tug-of-war between parents and adult children

The tug-of-war between parents and adult children

Being the parent of an adult child is like playing tug-of-war.  As a parent, part of you knows when to set your child free to live their own lives.…


Honoring your mother-in-law

Honoring your mother-in-law

My mother-in-law and I are complete opposites. She’s extroverted and loves to talk. I’m introverted and prefer to listen. She loves big family…


Four ways God equips us to love our in-laws

Sometimes it’s easy to consider our in-laws as exceptions to the rules of biblical wisdom.  We’ll apply certain passages to every other relationship…


Talking with your kids about dating and relationships

My daughter, Monica, came home one day after grammar school and announced, “When I see boys I want to hug them and kiss them.” Then the question,…


Children Are Complex

One of our daughters has such a sweet, tender heart, and for a while that's all we saw in her. She served others, prayed for others, and read her…